Rehearsal Dinner

Talamore Country Club

The Big Day

Guest Arrival & Welcome

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour

Reception

Private Thank You Brunch

Please Text  Any Questions or Concerns to 302-494-4146

Our Wedding

It all started with a Facebook message. One day in 2019, Derek slid into Bri’s DMs, and she instantly thought, “Okay… he’s cute.” Naturally, she started what she calls a friendly research mission and went through his profile immediately. After a few days of chatting, he asked her out on a date, and they chose Capers and Lemons, a restaurant they had both been to before. Derek offered to pick her up like a true gentleman. But Bri, being the cautious and smart woman she is, decided to drive herself. Internet people can be wild. She remembers seeing Derek walking toward the entrance before he even spotted her and instantly thinking he looked just as good in person. But more than that, there was something calming about his presence. They met at six in the evening and ended up talking and laughing until well past midnight. When the restaurant finally closed, they sat in his car just to keep the conversation going. Derek even tried to kiss her that night. It did not happen, but the energy between them was real. From that night on, their story began. There were a few pauses and moments where life got in the way, but Bri knew from day one that Derek was different. His smile stayed with her. He was thoughtful, present, and he made her feel seen. Before their first date, Bri had even read about Asperger’s and expected a little awkwardness. But Derek was surprisingly grounded and easy to talk to. He made her feel comfortable in a way that caught her off guard. When Derek met Bri’s parents, it was a cozy movie night at home. Her mom already knew how much she liked him and welcomed him warmly. Her dad, being playful, gave Derek a little trouble about sitting too close to his daughter. Bri wishes Derek had more time with her dad before he passed, but the few moments they did share were meaningful. Her friends saw what she saw. They knew right away that Derek was a good man who treated her with care and real interest. Their bond became even stronger during the most difficult season of Bri’s life. When her father became ill, she felt something inside tell her to reach out to Derek. They were not in regular contact at that point, but something about his presence felt safe. He showed up right away. He supported her through her grief, checked on her constantly, and was by her side at the funeral. His love gave her light in the middle of darkness. It was during that time that they agreed to stop walking away from each other. No more breaks. They chose each other fully, and they never looked back. Derek, once he lets his guard down, is incredibly goofy. He is thoughtful and structured, but also silly in the best way. Bri is the more emotional one, the deep thinker, and the more outgoing of the two. But together, they balance each other. Both of them are neurodivergent in their own ways, which helps them connect on a level that feels natural and comforting. They check in on each other every day. They laugh a lot. They push each other to grow. Derek is always trying to get Bri to start a new business idea, even ones he would never personally do himself. And Bri has a way of gently encouraging Derek to step out of his comfort zone. They love hard and hold each other accountable. Some of their inside jokes include Derek calling Bri his chocolate bunny and his obsession with cheek to cheek cuddles. Her face is a special interest of his, which she finds weird and adorable all at once. There have been challenges, but they show up for each other without making excuses. They listen. They call each other higher. They believe in legacy. Derek has supported Bri’s photography business from the start, and she has stood by him through investments and big decisions. At one point, Bri even cleaned and organized his entire house from top to bottom just to make his life a little easier. Derek brags about her cooking all the time, even when it is something simple. He loves that it came from her. One of the most meaningful things Derek has done is buy a home walking distance from Bri’s mother. He knew how close they were, especially after the loss of her father, and wanted Bri to be able to check in on her with ease. That gesture meant everything. Their love for family runs deep. In 2023, they spent Thanksgiving with Bri’s dad’s side of the family, and some of her cousins joked that Derek looked like a younger version of her father. In 2024, they traveled to Chicago to spend Thanksgiving with Derek’s family and had a beautiful time. They both deeply appreciate each other’s people, and that love is reflected in everything they do. Valentine’s Day 2024 brought the official proposal. Derek took Bri back to the restaurant where it all started. He had originally planned to propose during her birthday trip to Mexico in December, but something told him to wait and do it at the place that marked the beginning. During dinner, he turned to her and started telling her how much she meant to him. He pulled out the ring box while sitting right next to her, and the whole restaurant cheered. Bri was so overcome with joy, she forgot to say yes and just hugged him. It was beautiful, real, and perfect. Later that year, they celebrated with an engagement dinner at Derek’s Aunt Chrissy’s house. It was their first event honoring their upcoming marriage, and it meant so much to be surrounded by love and support. That night marked the beginning of their celebration season. Then came March of 2025. During their wedding party proposal, Derek shared the story of their first date and first proposal in front of friends and family. This time, he got down on one knee with the ring Bri wears now and asked her all over again. That moment, on March first, was even more special. It felt like everything was finally in place. Originally, they planned to get married in August of 2025. But wedding planning is no joke, and they made the decision to move the date back. It turned out to be the best decision. It gave them more space to plan intentionally and create an experience that truly reflects who they are. Today, Bri says that home means having Derek by her side. She loves loving him. She loves watching him flourish as a man and a future father. Derek says he loves taking care of his bunny. They are excited to build their family, grow their businesses, and live life with purpose and joy. If their love story were a movie, they already know the title. We Are Enough.

It All Started With A DM...

Our Story

Registry

SeJai has known Bri since since she was 5 months old and has been a good friend ever since!

SeJai Boggus-Bell

Lovingly nicknamed “Sister-Cousin” by Bri, she’s also one of her favorite travel buddies and confidants.

Brittney Townsend

LaQwin is Bri's Best friend of over 20+ years

LaQwin Chapman

A sister-like friend of Bri's: funny with a big heart!

Ashley Swift

Bobby Brown

Loving called Bri's Biz Bestie, Shinika is an amazing friend and accountability partner in Bri's life. 

Shinika Crawley

Shaune is more than a cousin to Derek, he is the brother he always wished he had. Though they live states apart, when they connect, conversations last for hours. One of Derek's most cherished people.

Shaune Johnson

Sean has always been in Derek's corner. A true supporter in every sense of the word, he was the one who encouraged Derek to take this step, believing that becoming a husband would make him an even better man. For that and so much more, there was no one else for this role.

Sean Bailey

Kenyon might just be the coolest person Derek knows. More than that, he is someone Derek can always confide in, the kind of friend who knows exactly what to say when it matters most.

Kenyon Hunter

Technically a new brother in law, but family long before it was official. Langston has been a steady presence in Derek's life for years, always ready with wisdom and real advice when it matters most. 

Langston Davis

Friends since preschool at just four years old, Monika has grown into the big sister Bri never knew she needed, whether she was ready for it or not lol. One of Bri's two Maids of Honor and one of her most loyal people.

Monika Bostick

Introduced through SeJai and a forever friend ever since. Lauren shares Bri's love of photography and is one of the sweetest women she knows. Someone Bri genuinely looks up to when it comes to wifehood and motherhood, having her in this moment means everything.

Lauren Macon

They have known each other for years and the bond they built earned them the title of cousins. Dan taught Derek to be direct, shared biblical wisdom that stuck, and remains one of his favorite people to joke around with.

Dan Hanks 

The Wedding Party

ELEGANT GARDEN FORMALTo help bring our wedding vision to life, we invite guests to dress in elegant garden formal attire.Think polished, romantic, and celebration ready.Ladies:• Floor-length gowns• Midi dresses• Elegant cocktail dresses• Dressy jumpsuitsGentlemen:• Suits• Sport coats with dress pants• Dress shirts and dress shoesIf possible, we would love for guests to incorporate colors from our suggested palette, including sage green, olive, gold, champagne, ivory, blush, taupe, tan, brown, camel, rust, terracotta, dusty mauve, copper, peach, slate blue, and light grey.These colors are strongly encouraged but not required. Please do not feel obligated to purchase a new outfit. We would much rather celebrate with you than have attire become a burden.Our only firm request is that guests avoid black attire and overly casual clothing such as jeans, sneakers, athletic wear, or flip flops.Thank you for helping us create a beautiful and memorable celebration. We cannot wait to celebrate with you!

Dress Code

A room block has been reserved for our guests at Normandy Farm Hotel &amp; Conference Center. Standard rooms are $199/night (+ tax and resort fee), with suites available for an additional $50–$200/night.To book, visit normandyfarm.com and use Group Attendee code OWJL18, or call the hotel's front desk directly at (215) 616-8500, option 1.Please book directly through the hotel only — do not use third-party booking sites. If you are asked to prepay at the time of booking, you are NOT booking through our block.Rooms must be reserved by June 17, 2026 — after this date, unused rooms will be released back to general inventory. Rooms are limited, so please book early!Cancellations or changes must be made at least 7 days before your arrival date to avoid a late cancellation fee.

Brittany & Derek

Brittany & Derek

B&D

The Big Day

3:45 PM–4:15 PM

Guest Arrival & Welcome

4:30 PM–5:00 PM

Ceremony

5:00 PM–6:00 PM

Cocktail Hour

6:00 PM–10:30 PM

Reception

Please Text Any Questions or Concerns to 302-494-4146